The following people are no longer welcome in the Lily: Caedam, Judas, Zero.

The Black Lily

Let us welcome you to The Black Lily, where we are all dark in our desires and views. Here at The Black Lily it isn't just about the music, or the drink, it’s not even really about the kink, it’s all about a sense of community and having a comfortable and inviting environment that caters to those of every experience level in the community, from the merely curious, to the newbies, to those who have been involved in the lifestyle for years. We want this to be your home, that sacred place where you feel safe and comforted.

What is home? My favorite definition is "a safe place," a place where one is free from attack, a place where one experiences secure relationships and affirmation. It's a place where people share and understand each other. Its relationships are nurturing. The people in it do not need to be perfect; instead, they need to be honest, loving, supportive, recognizing a common humanity that makes all of us vulnerable.” - Gladys Hunt,

With that being said, within our home we will not allow you to pass judgement on anyone's character or kink, it's simply not allowed. This room is for mature adults, that means mentally and behaviorally. If you can not behave with maturity then this is not the home for you. We will not abide by name calling, grudge matches, mud slinging, or the he said she said games. It should be noted that everyone is welcome here, that means everyone, if you don't like someone who is visiting the room then you can put them on ignore or you can leave. Room staff will not boot someone, or ban someone just because you have a problem with them, grow up and learn to handle your issues.


The Black Lily is all about acceptance; acceptance of kinks, quirks and personalities. In the Black Lily you are allowed to come as you are, even if this changes day to day or moment to moment, we will not judge you. We promote and support your choices and want you to feel comfortable with the choices that you have made.


The following people are no longer welcome in the Lily: Caedam, Judas, Zero.


There are a few things we wont allow to enter into our sacred environment:

1. We do not allow anonymous observers, please take a name when entering the room, ask any question you may have in private whispers to the room leader (Omega), or Room Mediators (Kaliko, Vanir or Rogue). Anonymous names will be booted on sight. This includes one letter initials, dots, numbers or any variances thereof.

2. NO CLIQUES we understand people will make connections and relate with each other on a higher level, but we frown on exclusive groups forming that may cause others to feel left out or not included.

3. No bad attitudes. We don't need your snobbery, judgmental, bitchy, catty moods destroying our vibes. Leave it at the door or find yourself thrown out the door.

4. Then we have the basics, no bestiality, no under-aged rp allowed, and please no scat.

5. We advocate both Safe, Sane, and Consensual (SSC) and Risk Aware Consensual Kink.

6. We don't judge, it's not our job to judge you.

7. Respect is a requirement, you must give it to get it. We won't turn you away, as long as you are respectful to everyone.

We will strictly enforce a code of respect:

  • Respect is a two-way street, if you want to get it, you've got to give it.” - R. G. Risch
  • Respect yourself and others will respect you.” - Confucius
  • Respect for ourselves guides our morals; respect for others guides our manners” - Laurence Sterne
  • If you want to be respected by others, the great thing is to respect yourself. Only by that, only by self-respect will you compel others to respect you.” - Fyodor Dostoyevsky

8. Please bring any issues that may arise to the attention of to the room leader (Omega), or Room Mediators (Vanir or Xams).

9. There will be open scening here, they may contain graphic violence and blood shed, if you are squeamish please use the ignore feature during the scene or you may leave the room. Rude comments during scenes are not tolerated and will get you booted.

10. Avatars may be explicit and should be of a reasonable size avatars.

11. Please be courteous and ask before privately whispering any room visitors, members or other anonymous observers.

12. This is an adult setting, please be over the age of 18 if you are going to set foot inside.

13. All other ReVo rules and criteria apply.